The Freedom of Forgiveness

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” – Lewis B. Smedes

Forgiveness isn’t always easy. In fact, sometimes it feels downright impossible. When someone has wronged us, the hurt cuts deep. The memory lingers, and resentment quietly takes root. But holding onto bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean that what happened was okay. It doesn’t excuse the offense or diminish the pain. What it does mean is that you’re choosing peace over poison, freedom over frustration, and healing over hatred.

Think of forgiveness as a gift you give yourself. It frees you from the burden of carrying anger and allows you to move forward with a lighter heart.

Here’s the truth: everyone makes mistakes. We all fall short. The same grace we hope to receive should be the grace we’re willing to extend.

The Bible reminds us in Ephesians 4:32 —

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

So today, July 19, why not let go of that grudge that’s been weighing you down? Forgive—not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace. You deserve joy. You deserve to be free.

Today’s Challenge:

Think of someone you need to forgive. You don’t have to call them or even tell them—but take one step in your heart toward releasing the pain. Whisper a prayer, write it down, or simply say, “I choose to let this go.”

Your future will thank you.