There’s a saying that goes, “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” The words we speak reveal much about what’s in our hearts. When we talk about others — especially in a negative way — we’re not lifting them up or helping ourselves grow. Instead, we’re draining energy that could be used to build, encourage, and inspire.
Talking about others often feels harmless in the moment. It might even seem like casual conversation. But words have weight — and once spoken, they can’t be taken back. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 21:23, “Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.” There’s freedom and strength in staying silent when gossip calls our name.
When you refuse to talk about others, you’re showing maturity, discipline, and integrity. You’re saying, “I choose peace over pettiness. I choose to be part of the solution, not the problem.” Instead of repeating what someone did wrong, speak about what they could become. Instead of spreading rumors, spread hope. Instead of tearing down, build up.
If someone brings gossip to you today, remember: it stops where you stand. You can change the atmosphere of a conversation simply by saying, “Let’s talk about something positive.”
Guard your words, and you’ll guard your peace. Use your tongue not as a weapon, but as a tool for healing and encouragement.
Quote:
“Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?”
Scripture:
“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying.” — Ephesians 4:29
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